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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "Yippee - I Think I have found a new Master" 1 2 Yippee - I Think I have found a new Master (13) Mon 15 Sep 08, 12:35 AM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  I am so excited about finding a new potential master from New Zealand. We are still exploring the ranges of our commitments and the possibilities look positive. Master Peter sounds very interesting and He wants me to relocate. i will take as many precautions as possible to ensure He is not a flake before committing to move to another continent but it looks hopeful. We have been chatting on im and things are going well - i just pray this one will be real and worth my lifelong devotion. Slave andrea 15 Sep 08, 1:10 AM jakesemma US(WA), 14 mths  Good luck. 15 Sep 08, 2:21 AM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  Thank you Emma 15 Sep 08, 5:06 AM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs  616-763-198 wrote: Yippee - I Think I have found a new Master I am so excited about finding a new potential master from New Zealand. We are still exploring the ranges of our commitments and the possibilities look positive. Master Peter sounds very interesting and He wants me to relocate. i will take as many precautions as possible to ensure He is not a flake before committing to move to another continent but it looks hopeful. We have been chatting on im and things are going well - i just pray this one will be real and worth my lifelong devotion. Slave andrea many CONGRATS your way - you go gal-pal! Never give up! 3 vanilla husbands before my late Master and the early days of our difficult vanilla marriage left me thinking i'd NEVER be happy - but W/we went M/s 24/7 and i did know 4 1/2 years of ecstasy as well as some happy times with the difficult ones in the earlier marriage as well as very hard work. And Y/you know what? that's okay because 4 1/2 years of real joy is more than most females i know - vanilla and some not - know in a lifetime. And even now on the 10th month exactly today since His death (9/14/8) i may not exactly be happy and certainly not overjoyed but i know contentment, satisfaction, and gratitude - and i make the best of things day by day, as i know He'd wish for me. How many F/folks can say that - that T/they've ever been happy? Outside of places like this and O/our lifestyle overall, not just M/s, i really don't know many. and, FYI, Master and i only found this happiness after 3 prior marriages apiece. So there IS always hope gal-pal. Esp. if Y/you take it slow, keep on the High road and preserve your integrity, making sure He is doing the same and shares your values, communication and mostly COMMITMENT - real ones. i know that now or later you'll find what you're seeking as long as you keep trying. (((((HUGS)))))) if you can accept them. j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 18 Sep 08, 12:15 AM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  i will meet this Master at Christmas time for a first face-to-face meeting. i agreed to being his slave for now but will not relocate until he satisfies my concerns that we are a good match and He collars me. slave andrea 22 Sep 08, 1:54 AM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  After conversing with the foreign potential Master on IM (Instant Messenger) for two weeks I discovered He seemed disingenuous in his love for me. I had expressed the need to be a loved and treasured, but devoted slave. He wanted a devoted slave but I sensed the lack of love. In addition He was giving conflicting orders and when I tried to point out the confusing orders He became angry instead of letting me explain. I was not challenging his orders, but that didn't matter to him. Therefore, because I had not relocated, been collared or signed a slave contract, I felt I still had enough freedom to terminate our relationship. Which is what I did. So right now I am back to be unowned, but I know there are Masters near by who desire someone like myself for a slave. slave andrea 22 Sep 08, 5:37 AM little_linnet US, 3 yrs  OK, so in two weeks you went from "I may have found a new master!" to making plans to meet him to figuring out that he's not compatible. Have you learned anything from this experience at all? Krista The thing you have to remember about girls is that the hyperfluid bearings under the camshafts can be miscalibrated along either axis, so regular maintanence is required to keep resonance in the titanium casing from causing abrasions against the primary sprocket joists. 22 Sep 08, 7:49 AM Mistress_Tiara UK, 23 mths  616-763-198 wrote: I discovered He seemed disingenuous in his love for me. I had expressed the need to be a loved and treasured, but devoted slave. He wanted a devoted slave but I sensed the lack of love. A thought for the future: Someone you have 'met' online & corresponded with for two weeks is not going to genuinely love you, even of they say they do. Love is a bit more complicated & deep than that. When someone advertises for a slave they all have their own meanings & expectations of what 'slave' will mean - what they are unfortunately is a variable you can't predict. The fact that they will not genuinely love you after two weeks of internet correspondence etc is however. I am not saying that a real, enduring love could not eventually grow from such an encounter. In its own right however, love will not be there at such a stage. I say this because by strongly desiring a Master who will love you - NOW! - you leave yourself vulnerable. Good luck in your future search *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 24 Sep 08, 12:43 AM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  Well I should update you all on what has transpired with this Master. He claims to be from New Zealand but working on a major contract in Nigeria. Makes me suspicious as we receive all sorts of money scam from South African countries. He apologized for his conflicting orders so we resumed discussions over the last couple of days. Then today the alarm bells went off - he asked to borrow money from me! I don't believe any Master has the right to request money from a slave (especially one that has not signed a contract or been collared). I cut off the IM conversation with him and I will not have anymore contact. I may be paranoid, but it was too suspicious for me. So still searching. slave andrea 24 Sep 08, 4:06 AM violetgirl US(AZ), 23 mths  You're not being paranoid. Also, what Mistress Tiara said. One problem with a desperate need for love--which is a very human condition and one with which I deeply empathize--is that it makes one so vulnerable. Take care of yourself. violet It is a joy to be hidden but a disaster not to be found. --D.W. Winnicott 24 Sep 08, 7:40 PM 616-763-198 CA, 7 mths  Thank you Violet Girl and Mistress Tiara. slave andrea Next page