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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "addressing in public " 1 2 addressing in public (20) Moved from Dominance Tue 23 Sep 08, 10:37 PM Adolpha CA, 3 mths  I was curios if anyone had any ideas for suitable options to announce the title of master for public situations where "master" is not very suitable 23 Sep 08, 11:52 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  i find "Sir" to be non offencive to the vanilla comunity. p I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 24 Sep 08, 12:32 AM Morniel US, 6 mths  Generally, I call Soltic... well... Soltic. Master isn't a title we use, though I may refer to him as "my master" for instance. When I address him, I usually say his name, and when one or both of us feels the need for a further term of respect, or a further reinforcement of his status or mine, I address him as Sir. Morniel's Special Place 24 Sep 08, 12:58 AM 597-866-048 US(CA), 9 mths  "SIR" most proper and polite and Respectful. promise only what you can deliver..Then deliver more than you promise.. 24 Sep 08, 8:20 AM little_linnet US, 3 yrs  I say "honey". I'm expected to use the same courtesy I use anywhere when I talk to him. Krista The thing you have to remember about girls is that the hyperfluid bearings under the camshafts can be miscalibrated along either axis, so regular maintanence is required to keep resonance in the titanium casing from causing abrasions against the primary sprocket joists. 24 Sep 08, 11:58 AM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  The thing is this; master 'is' very suitable always if both of you are comfortable with it's use in any situation; it's you guys that have to be able to hack any problems that might arise from the use of perhaps an 'odd' name. Obviously though, youre not so I'll add my allowances into the toss; Miss (rather than Mistress, given that she's a lot younger than me - it suits any 'nilla situation and no-one bats an eyelid, not that we 'do' age-play); Her given name; Any term of endearment you'd care to mention; oh, and Phay - it's not her given name, it's a chosen (I suppose 'nick-') name between us, and means a lot to both of us - a long story behind it, hence why Miss is called that here. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 24 Sep 08, 3:20 PM meriaton US(MN), 3 yrs  Often, Sir works for me in a public or 'nilla situation. But i still catch myself saying "Master" anyway - and often, "Daddy" will spill from my lips. Oops. -blush- Very rarely do i use His Name - it seems odd to me to do so. Not knocking what Others prefer, just explaining that in the relationship that i have with my Master, using His Name is reserved for introductions of 'nilla people or use in front of His Children. meriaton - slave of Akhenaton http://meriaton.byethost12.com/blog/blog4.php Sometimes a sense of humor is the only sense i have! 24 Sep 08, 6:45 PM Just_Angel US(CO), 2 yrs£ I'm not terribly shy about using non-vanilla address in public, but I've heard some creative substitutions. My love seems to work pretty well. If you are in the SCA crowd, M'Lord never gets a second glance. I guess my favorite discreet address would be Sahib... I've played with that one a bit here lately. "What would YOU do for a klondike bar?" 24 Sep 08, 11:04 PM Kaledorus US, 23 mths  If you are introducing him to mom and dad then how about his Christian name? That is how I find it to be most easily done in social settings. When you "submit" to or "dominate" someone in a situation where safewords are used and when limitations are negotiated, you are not actually submitting or dominating at all - you are playing at it. 27 Sep 08, 1:07 PM 581-347-553 UK, 2 mths  I call my owner Daddy and he calls me kitten even if I am with friends and some (not all) of my family... If it is definately inappropriate to call him Daddy, which lets face it, it is sometimes... I call my owner by his *shock* christian name, something that humans do from time to time... he understands being thought of as a total weirdo is not always a good thing... 28 Sep 08, 7:05 PM allalone47 US, 3 yrs  In the end it still will depend on your Master. Next page