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	SD! : Web boards : Off Topic : "Master Tommy G. from Ireland needs help" Master Tommy G. from Ireland needs help (3) Tue 30 Sep 08, 9:49 PM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs  i met Him through here and W/we started corresponding because He had lost a slave as i have lost a Master - in fact today is 1 year to the day that He (late Master) was taken from my Home for a lengthy hospitalization after which He died on 11/14/07 in patient) Anyway as of this date - 10/30/08 - Tommy is in critical condition in Ireland from a surgical incision gone to infectious, possibly gangreene from the discription of it turning black or MRSA, something bad. And it's not on an extremity that can be amputated so if the anti-biotics etc. don't get it, He's in very serious danger. Since He's a member HERE and that's how W/we met and i introduced Him to a sub whose worried sick over Him, i thought F/folks on here might want to know. Good vibes, "Prayer", "meditation" or it's generic equivalent in any balanced path is in order, please. To have a reference to date as some of these end up on here forever as threads, it is now Sept.30th about 5 P.M in Eastern standard Time in the east coast of the USA. j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 6 Oct 08, 9:13 PM 593-863-980 BE, 2 mths  this is Master J. I will pray for you you must try to find a way to deal with the loss of the partner and Master. that is, most likely, complicating your recovery now. J. 7 Oct 08, 12:35 AM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs  593-863-980 wrote: this is Master J. I will pray for you you must try to find a way to deal with the loss of the partner and Master. that is, most likely, complicating your recovery now. J. i'm talking about 2 different People. Master Tommy come to find out is known on here as "Gaelic Master" or was and was in critical condition when i asked for prayers for Him. He is not my late Master - They are 2 different Folks. Master Tommy is sort of a protector i guess one could call it to me - like a Friend/Brother? He's free at the moment but exploring options elsewhere. my late Master went into the hospital on Sept 30, 07 and died on 11/14 of the same year - i am still oath-bound by Him never to serve another. And Sept. 30th was hard. but i was asking for prayers or their generic equivalent in A/anyone's spiritual equivalent for "Gaelic Master" or Master Tommy who is in quite serious condition still, but it was critical - life or death - when i made the original post. Yes i do have to find ways to cope with Master's death - but even in the traditional cultures in the vanilla world a widow mourns for her Spouse, often by wearing black, for at least a year. (Even if He was a total S.O.B. - and my late Master certainly was not) i've been corresponding with some Owner/Doms who have lost slaves/subs and vice-versa - it seems W/we all take such a loss much harder than any normal vanilla marriage, even if the Owner/Dom and slave/sub are not legally married, but were collared or in some other way made the relationship permanent. In my case multiple disabilities and health issues that keep me captive in my home since He died - except for medical appts. - make it even more complicated. It causes me to have to call on several agencies and government offices, the Church Master was ordained in, etc. for help to get by on a daily basis - the health issues plummeting into a very much worse condition soon after He died. It rips out a piece of Y/you is what i've seen in the 2 other Owners and another sub/slave who've lost their O/other H/half and in myself - it's a deeper wound for most of U/us than just being W/widowed is. But with my complications i do find it exceptionally hard. i make the best of it because that is what Master would have wanted me to do and it's okay - i'm not overjoyed in blissful happiness the way i often was when He was alive, due to Him; however, some days are okay and mostly i'm content. i'm a little scared due to the economy, but mostly i'm content with my lot in life and have much - thanks to Him - to be grateful for. and i do count those blessings every day. Now, back to the original post, Master Tommy/Gaelic Master is doing better thanks to a "hunch" that got Him in for some better medical care that He desperately needed to deal with His infected wound. He's no longer critical - to use U.S. terms, although He's in Ireland - but would be called in a severely "serious" condition bordering on critical now- i.e. Oct. 6, 08 - and would appreciate continued prayer or it's generic equivalent from all His friends. i also posted this originally for another reason - so His friends might know why He's not been round and about here. It is Gaelic Master who is "recovering" from surgery and huge, major complications thereof - not me, not yet. i am expecting to have surgery later this month though, so i'll certainly take A/anyone's prayers. But that wasn't the point here at all. As Gaelic Master does not currently have a slave, i thought i'd help by letting everyone know He's still alive - barely - even if not reading on here, etc. GLAD TO SEE TSR/DS 24/7 BACK - HOORAY! i missed Y/you all! (HUGE grin) j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 7 Oct 08, 7:28 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  662-935-655 wrote: i've been corresponding with some Owner/Doms who have lost slaves/subs and vice-versa - it seems W/we all take such a loss much harder than any normal vanilla marriage, even if the Owner/Dom and slave/sub are not legally married, but were collared or in some other way made the relationship permanent. 662-935-655 wrote: It rips out a piece of Y/you is what i've seen in the 2 other Owners and another sub/slave who've lost their O/other H/half and in myself - it's a deeper wound for most of U/us than just being W/widowed is. I've been watching this thread, and I'm well aware of the whys and wherefores of it's being here but tell me this; how dare you come up with the utter trash above? You have no right whatsoever to demean 'any normal vanilla marriage… or relationship' out of turn as taking a loss lighter simply because 'we' happen to be in this lifestyle. Any relationship, between consenting adults, anywhere is equally valid to the next - period. I'm not saying for a second that you, nor the ones you've discussed it with haven't had it tough, for all the circumstances under the sun, but I'll tell you for nothing, one specific case; my father lost his soulmate – and a damned sight more than that when his wife of 37 years passed away after fighting Breast Cancer for the second time - she died 14 years ago, btw; he loved that woman with everything he was, and he won't have been the first (and certainly won't be the last to be) in that kind of situation to have lost someone in that manner – and it had nothing to do with any lifestyles. I make no finer point on the fact that the simple nature of the way that part of your post was worded is deplorable – millions of people have what they believe to be valid relationships that they hold true and dear to their hearts – in their own way; and their grief in the loss of a loved one becomes invalid in an instant by not being part of a closed off corner of society? Utter nonsense. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ Edited 7 Oct 08, 9:02 PM by 000-874-172