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	SD! : Web boards : Captivity : "Chastity belt not working" 1 2 Chastity belt not working (11) Fri 10 Oct 08, 8:34 AM 365-195-714 IT, 6 mths  Altrough I' wear a cb3000 I'm still able to orgasm any suggestion? 10 Oct 08, 9:16 AM Ms_Valentine UK, 6 mths  365-195-714 wrote: Chastity belt not working Altrough I' wear a cb3000 I'm still able to orgasm any suggestion? Show some control and stop touching yourself. If you have been placed in chastity by someone in a dominant position to you then it is disrespectful to disobey. If you are in self imposed chastity, it defeats the point. Either way, just exert more self control. Controversial views of Ms_Valentine. No 1. Slaves submit no more deeply than subs can do. No 2. Terms such as a 'sub' or a 'slave' describe a state of being, not a level of submission, importance or place in a hierarchy. 3. Submission?.. no limits necessary. 10 Oct 08, 10:12 AM masterfiremaam US(AZ), 2 yrs  Stop poking at it. Master Fire ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh Hai! Blessinz of teh Ceiling Cat be apwn yu, srsly. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 10 Oct 08, 11:27 AM 365-195-714 IT, 6 mths  Ms_Valentine wrote: 365-195-714 wrote: Chastity belt not working Altrough I' wear a cb3000 I'm still able to orgasm any suggestion? Show some control and stop touching yourself. If you have been placed in chastity by someone in a dominant position to you then it is disrespectful to disobey. If you are in self imposed chastity, it defeats the point. Either way, just exert more self control. It's imposed chastity it's true that is disrispectful to not obey but I wear a chastity device to avoid touching my self so wich is the point of having a chastity device if it doesn't work? 10 Oct 08, 11:49 AM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 8 mths  365-195-714 wrote: It's imposed chastity it's true that is disrispectful to not obey but I wear a chastity device to avoid touching my self so wich is the point of having a chastity device if it doesn't work? Hmmm... if the CB isn't enough of a deterrent, maybe your hands need to be bound behind your back. i believe the constant reminder that it is not to be touched was the point, but if it isn't enough you are showing no self control. Or am i miss reading your post... do you mean to say you haven't touched it and it still "went off?"? If that is the case, just try thinking about things that you find disgusting... rotten food, infested with maggots possibly. That would get me out of the mood. Or something you find unpleasant. your mind should be powerful enough to control your "friend". Does that help? p I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 10 Oct 08, 12:01 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  I'm unsure whether you will understand but D/s and M/s as we discuss and live it here, is not just a matter of force. Submission means submitting... (n.) The act of submitting; the act of yielding to power or authority; surrender of the person and power to the control or government of another; obedience; compliance. Just as we expect a Dominant or Master to behave honourably having taken responsibility for the life of a submissive or slave, the slave is honour bound to strive to achieve surrender and graceful compliance in things both small and large, easy and difficult. Sometimes this comes naturally, sometimes we have to fight ourselves to submit to our M's will in something but they DO expect that we will fight the urge to disobey. If what you want is to play kinky games and pretend to be forced... or push another to 'dominate' you for your own kicks... that is fine and dandy too but this website is not the right place to look for how to achieve that. Very very few of those here who are owned or collared would consider disobedience such as you suggest. The fact that your Domme has put you in a chastity device and forbidden you to orgasm should be enough to draw the wish to please her from you. Many live this way without any device required. It's called devotion and self control and will power and the desire to serve and obey and please. If that makes no sense to you... you need to find another group with whom to talk about your issues. They might have more answers. anjuli Ps. It's a good job I'm not a D type, I'd rub chili oil into your fingertips. That would solve more than one of your issues by making the price you pay rather painful with absolutely NO effort or attention on my part! ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 10 Oct 08, 12:12 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  anjuli wrote: Ps. It's a good job I'm not a D type, I'd rub chili oil into your fingertips. That would solve more than one of your issues by making the price you pay rather painful with absolutely NO effort or attention on my part! Chilli oil? I'd leave cut chillis in there, ya know, nice hot ones, 855,000 on the Scoville scale (the hottest, like EVER! ) - there would be no orgasming, or touching, because there would be no feeling or desire to touch it, for hmmmm, well when the surgeons re-attach the skin, they might discuss grafts.. Hasn't anyone noticed it's him again? If I were Padrona B, I woulda fair whipped that guys arse out the door and locked it by now. All he does is whine, unless of course, this is troll-ism at it's finest and he's just not been kicked yet? Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 10 Oct 08, 12:23 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 8 mths  anjuli wrote: Ps. It's a good job I'm not a D type, I'd rub chili oil into your fingertips. That would solve more than one of your issues by making the price you pay rather painful with absolutely NO effort or attention on my part! anjuli, Ahhh, your post sent me to see where we have seen our friend before... now i remember. i pity the poor D-type that needs to deal with these issues. OP: i see a trend with you of not very befitting behaviors. If you are genuine...you are disgraceful to your Mistress. A submissive wants to please not disgrace. If you are not genuine, and just like punishment- i'm sure you could find a more appropriate forum. At that i will depart... not wishing to feed the trolls. p I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 10 Oct 08, 10:25 PM 378-782-369 UK, 2 yrs  This is a problem with the cb 3000 and have experianced the problem myself. suggestion is to use two rings put the larger one round your cock and balls first then a smaller one in front of that then attach the cage part you will need a longet pin and use the biggest spacer you can fit between the two rings. This worked for me compleatly stoped any wanking although it wasless painfull when hard for long term wear and less chaffing so a win win all round 12 Oct 08, 3:54 PM slavegail UK, 3 yrs  written with permission of NG1. sorry im a female. my Owners pratice strict orgasm control i can be punished for touching myself apart from toilet and washing. after about two weeks of not having one my owners know im climbing up the wall wet and sticky all the time so the CB comes into use usually with a butt plug. and there is always the flogger crop cane paddle slipper etc if they thing or catch me there is also the cctv camers for when they are not in. slavegail Property of NG1 12 Oct 08, 11:32 PM 365-195-714 IT, 6 mths  I got all your point and I will ask my mistres to try chili oil. anjuli wrote: I'm unsure whether you will understand but D/s and M/s as we discuss and live it here, is not just a matter of force. Submission means submitting... (n.) The act of submitting; the act of yielding to power or authority; surrender of the person and power to the control or government of another; obedience; compliance. Just as we expect a Dominant or Master to behave honourably having taken responsibility for the life of a submissive or slave, the slave is honour bound to strive to achieve surrender and graceful compliance in things both small and large, easy and difficult. Sometimes this comes naturally, sometimes we have to fight ourselves to submit to our M's will in something but they DO expect that we will fight the urge to disobey. If what you want is to play kinky games and pretend to be forced... or push another to 'dominate' you for your own kicks... that is fine and dandy too but this website is not the right place to look for how to achieve that. Very very few of those here who are owned or collared would consider disobedience such as you suggest. The fact that your Domme has put you in a chastity device and forbidden you to orgasm should be enough to draw the wish to please her from you. Many live this way without any device required. It's called devotion and self control and will power and the desire to serve and obey and please. If that makes no sense to you... you need to find another group with whom to talk about your issues. They might have more answers. anjuli Ps. It's a good job I'm not a D type, I'd rub chili oil into your fingertips. That would solve more than one of your issues by making the price you pay rather painful with absolutely NO effort or attention on my part! Next page